"What if EVERYTHING feels perfect... except SEX? "
29 December 2025

"What if EVERYTHING feels perfect... except SEX? "

A Real life couples case study:  They had it all — love, emotional intimacy, warmth, even shared life goals.  And yet, they were stuck. Six years of on-and-off.  She was ready to marry. He wasn’t —...
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Thinking About an Open Relationship? Read This First
29 December 2025

Thinking About an Open Relationship? Read This First

Lately, more and more couples are exploring open relationships. The idea sounds exciting—having one primary partner while also having other romantic or sexual connections.But here’s something we do...
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"I stopped kissing him..because every kiss felt like a contract I didn't want to sign."
29 December 2025

"I stopped kissing him..because every kiss felt like a contract I didn't want to sign."

She said it without anger. Just... quiet honesty. "It's not that I don't love him. I just don't want sex. And I know if I hug or kiss him, he'll hope for more. So I don't start anything at all." 12...
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How porn quietly shapes expectations in our bedroom ?
29 December 2025

How porn quietly shapes expectations in our bedroom ?

Not just what we do in bed — but how we feel in bed. As a sex therapist, I meet people — individuals and couples — who come in with this silent frustration: "We love each other...so why does physic...
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CASE STUDY| 9 Years in a deeply committed relationship without penetrative sex
28 December 2025

CASE STUDY| 9 Years in a deeply committed relationship without penetrative sex

She’s 29. Married for 7 years. In love with her partner for 9. They’ve shared a life, a home, countless birthdays, and now, a dream—to start a family. But after all these years together, they stil...
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What do you do when your partner's desires scare you, but you still want to try ?
28 December 2025

What do you do when your partner's desires scare you, but you still want to try ?

A young couple, dating for six years and preparing for marriage, came to me seeking clarity. On the surface, they were in love. But intimacy had slowly become a source of tension. She had been expe...
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When Sex Becomes a Tool to Punish...
21 October 2025

When Sex Becomes a Tool to Punish...

I once worked with a couple who had an interesting pattern. Every time the wife was angry, she didn’t express it in words. She simply stopped being sexual. No fights, no discussions — just silence....
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Cheating is cheating. There's no hierarchy - only consequences. 💔
21 October 2025

Cheating is cheating. There's no hierarchy - only consequences. 💔

As a couples therapist, I see two common patterns again and again.Both break partners in ways that aren’t always obvious.Here are two clinical cases from practice — and what they taught me.Case 1 —...
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"He paid her to stay quiet about his erectile issues."
21 October 2025

"He paid her to stay quiet about his erectile issues."

That’s how he began his first therapy session with me. A man in his late 30s. Divorced. Educated. Successful on the outside. But inside, he carried years of sexual anxiety, shame, and emotional tr...
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