Lately, more and more couples are exploring open relationships. The idea sounds exciting—having one primary partner while also having other romantic or sexual connections.
But here’s something we don’t talk about enough: it’s not as simple as it sounds.
But here’s something we don’t talk about enough: it’s not as simple as it sounds.
Opening up a relationship takes work—and I mean deep, uncomfortable, honest work. You need conversations, clarity, consent, and sometimes even contracts (yes, verbal or written). Most importantly, you need emotional maturity and self-awareness. Jealousy, fear, insecurity—these emotions don’t disappear when you open the doors to other connections.
If anything, they get louder. And if we haven’t worked through our own emotional wounds, an open relationship can make things messier, NOT better.
This isn’t to say open relationships are wrong—they can be beautiful and fulfilling for the right people. But only when DONE RIGHT.
That’s where therapy plays a big role. It helps couples understand their motivations, their boundaries, and whether this path is right for them at all.
So if you’re considering any relationship structure outside the traditional one, take a pause. Get curious. Get informed. Talk to a therapist.
This isn’t just about fun—it’s about doing it in a way that doesn’t break what you already have.
Open relationships aren’t bad. But *uninformed ones* can be.
[ Aashita Khanna, Sex Therapist of India, Clinical Psychologist, RCI, Relationship Tips, Open Relationships, Consensual Non Monogamy, Polyamorous Couples, Therapy ]
